Relationship Advice From Actor Will Smith: How To Make It Last!

Relationship Advice From Actor Will Smith: How To Make It Last!

With a 13 year marriage to Jada Pinkett-Smith, three kids and a successful career in the Hollywood spotlight under his belt, we are very inclined to listen to any advice Will Smith gives about having a successful relationship or marriage. 

Here are a few excerpts from Will's recent interview with 'Essence' magazine's editor on how to make your relationship or marriage work and last.

If You Marry Your Best Friend, You’re Good 
Every man wants to marry his homie, Will explained. A lot of women will impress them, but it’s the one they can always laugh with and be themselves with that will ultimately impress them the most. If you can be yourselves around each other, 100 percent of the time, and they can make you life like no one else can, you’ll never have a dull moment together. 

Remind Him of What He Has
When you start to feel that you’re nagging your husband to the point of no return and nothing you’re saying is getting through, Will suggests you try a new approach. Hold him close, look him right in the eyes, and tell him that you love him, you’re right there, and you always will be, BUT you need him to pick his socks up – right now.  As Will puts it, it’s important to remind him that your request is coming from a good place, and what you want is a small thing in the grand scheme of things. Um, genius!

All Men Need A Little Space
“If you don’t give your husband thirty minutes to himself when he first gets home he’ll stop coming home,” Will told me, straight up. (You’re thinking, no way, right? I did too!) When I asked Will when a wife was supposed to say her piece, he responded, “anytime after that.” Will reminded me that everyone’s home needs to feel like a happy place, and it won’t if you’re “greeted with negativity” every time you enter the door. Touché Will. Talk about a pause for the cause.

Focus on Balance and Excitement Always
According to Will and Jada’s way of thinking about marriage, maintaining a happy union isn’t just about making time for one another, it’s about making the time count too. Excitement and mystery are everything, he said. Surprise them, let them know you love them, laugh together – whatever it takes to put a smile on their face.

What do you think of Will Smith's relationship advice, and what works in your relationship? Leave a comment below.

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  1. Carrie6/22/2011

    such a cute couple

  2. If I was married to Will Smith I'm sure I'd make it last too :)

  3. Felicia6/22/2011

    Luv him he's so hot!

  4. vivienne6/22/2011

    Beautiful couple

  5. Props to em for making it last in this age of 6month marriages.

  6. Great advice Will ;)

  7. Ya'll hear that women, don't nag, give us space to breathe, and no sweat pants we want ya'll looking sexy all the time. Props to my man Will.


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